I had planned to tell you all about a Halloween event I attended last week, and how I realized it was something I had envisioned in a guided meditation 18 months before. Cheers for manifesting!

But…

It’s nearly impossible to ignore news about the US election today. While politics might not seem like a typical topic for me, it’s deeply connected to our mental health, our sense of hope, and our ability to thrive.

I recently read that your vote is a chess move, not an endorsement. This resonated with me because it highlights that voting is a strategy, a calculated decision to move towards the future we desire.

Yesterday, I cast my ballot for Kamala Harris, and I would be thrilled to call her the President of the United States. This doesn’t mean I agree with her 100%, but I’m confident she’s the better choice to move us toward the future I desire for myself, my children, my friends, and humanity as a whole, including you.

And I believe you’re here because you care about happiness, wellbeing, and thriving, and that you’re a person who cares about this not only for yourself, but for your friends, family, and people you’ve never met too.

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We all want to be happy. We all want our families to be healthy and well. We all agree that children’s lives should be protected. We all deserve to feel safe walking around our cities at night. We’d all like lower taxes. We all want freedom of speech and to make choices about our own lives.

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I see each side making these arguments—we all want the same things.

It’s frustrating to know we have the same human needs and wants, and difficult for me to wrap my head around the idea that someone can support a candidate who is a convicted felon.

I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, because there’s no growth there. But how can we look our children in the eyes and tell them this is the bar for morals in the highest office in our country?

This isn’t about Republican vs. Democrat. This is about integrity and values and moving toward a brighter future for the greater good.

A rising tide lifts all boats.

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I hesitated to write this letter and be so public about my choice. (Although, if you’ve been here a while or follow me on IG, I think my beliefs are pretty clear.) I was thinking of the “stay in your lane” and “unfollow” and “unsubscribe” replies I might get. But I don’t want to let fear hold me back. I don’t want my kids to wonder why I didn’t speak up to share my views with the intention of creating the best world I can for them.

In the grand scheme of life, writing an email while I’m safe at home is really NOT that brave, so why does this feel so scary?

It’s human nature to want to be liked, and it’s human nature to want to feel like you’re in control.

I watched this video, “Why I’m not worried about the election,” by Adam Conover, and I had to share this quote, “Worry is the emotion you feel when you fear an outcome over which you have no control. Worry is an emotion of powerlessness.” Then he shared a few things he’s doing personally to have control and make a difference, outside of voting. It’s worth the 13 minutes (or 6.5 at 2x the speed for my ADHD friends 😏) to remind us of how we can make a difference, because it doesn’t end after the election results come out, no matter the outcome.

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Now, if you’re still with me and looking for something OTHER than election content today, here are three completely unrelated ideas for you.

If you love…

…spreadsheets, check out this Reel on how to create a Christmas Gift Tracker, including budget and countdown.
…dresses perfect for the holidays, for twirling, and for matching with your littles, check out Ivy City. They’re having a 30-40% off everything sale right now, and I picked up a few things in darling holiday patterns.
…quick tips to boost your communication skills, check out this Reel from Vinh Quang Giang for 3 actions to upskill fast. (Thanks to my SIL for sharing!)